Tuesday, September 18, 2012

A story of my first typhoon


After witnessing my first typhoon I think I can say with certainty that it is definitely something that seems much more significant in real life than through a screen of a TV or the page of a book. We see images of nature’s fury and the aftermath of her atmospheric induced rage but so often do we give it only a mere passing thought. Sometimes slightly more but nothing that ever affects us, makes us reconsider things or gain a new respect for nature’s tendency to flip the fuck out and rage until there’s nothing left. We experience none of these things until they happen to us, until the “that’s never going to happen to me” happens.

To be perfectly fair this is not the first typhoon I had experienced in Korea. Only a few weeks before had I bared witness to a passing typhoon in my small town of Gimcheon. The brunt of the storm was much further along the coast. My town only witnessed a few prolonged rain showers and the inconvenience of having to pull out an umbrella when stepping outdoors.

The second one to hit was a big one. While we were spared the harsh wind and ocean waves crashing down on us, we were hit with a flurry of rain and water for nearly two straight days. Heavy rain is nothing new in Korea but its after effects were where the major concern came in and almost were the cause of my home becoming much wetter than I would have preferred.

It was still raining hard once I made my way to school. It was still early and getting there and back was not an issue when you had the modern ease of public transportation. As the morning went on, the rain continued to fall harder. I offhandly asked one of the students if they would be going home early. He replied no, stating that the school rarely, if ever let the students go home.

About an hour until the afternoon bell, I noticed students screaming and running outside the teacher’s room. Curious as to why the students were making more noise than usual I peaked outside and like Ebenezer Scrooge asking a young boy what day it is, my students enthusiastically replied back to me that it was announced that the students could go home early.

It was then that I knew that something was amiss in the world of my school. Not only did my principal never allow students to leave early, but today was a testing day as well. It would have to be a pretty serious reason to let them leave so soon. To the students, they felt that they had just won a war against authority. I felt ever more suspicious that the typhoon was going to be a little bigger than a few raindrops.

Even if students are allowed to leave early or are excused from coming to school, teachers still have to come in and sit in the office. The reasons as to why are beyond me, but as the last students left I took my place at my desk and began to work on my computer, listening to music, draining out the world and the rain around me.

The day went on for another hour, my coffee drained itself from my cup and as I finally removed the noise blockers to the outside world I, I noticed that groups of teachers were running around and nervously talking to one another. A few were on their phone and others were glued to their computer screens, staring at the latest weather reports.

As the room became more chaotic, one of my co teachers came in from outside, looking as if the weather had not only rained on him but engaged in a fist fight as well. His dress shirt was soaked, with his tie glued to his chest from heavy rainfall. His pants legs were pulled up to his calves and the back of his feet were bloody and scratched.

“Kyle, we need to go home now. We cannot stay here anymore,” he told me in a rushed tone as he began to run around the room alerting the remaining teachers there.

Volunteer workers frantically working to block the incoming flood water. 
I looked outside my window and saw that the rain had picked up the pace significantly, Not only was the rain falling down at a furious rate, but the school was beginning to attract rainwater as the hallways and steps began to disappear from sight.

A group of teachers that lived near my area were preparing to walk home together. The bridge we usually crossed was too dangerous to drive over by car. I questioned the logic of a car being unsafe but walking being acceptable but quickly put it aside as the teachers packed their bags, rolled up their pants and took off their shoes. We were heading out into the typhoon and we were going to go home.

Walking out of the school was sense shocking experience as the rain pelted us from above, its wet drops feeling more like tiny pellets rather than the gentle rainfall that people liked to romanticize. The normally bare streets overflowed with water pouring out of the sewer drains and down from the hill. The simple act of walking was not more challenging due to the fast running water.

Teachers stayed in a group as we passed out tunnel entrance to the school. Where there once was a dip in the road now stood a pool of water that was rapidly becoming fuller. No car would ever have a chance of making it through. The school was now effectively cut off from the rest of the world. A wish that students often made about the school, but never intended they would actually see.

The sewers began overflowing, bringing in even more water. 
As we walked down the street, we saw people standing in doorways and cars pulling over to the side of road. As fast and as thick as the water fell, it was becoming too difficult to see a few feet in front of you, let alone ahead of the road. My teachers continued to walk on, the wind was picking up and the was now blowing directly on us, slowly trying to push us back to the school, trying with all of its will to prevent us from heading back to our dry homes. This had just become a man vs. nature situation. I was wet, tired and not wanting to turn back. It was too late and I was too far. I was going home.

After walking along the soaked streets I saw a line of cars slowly turning around in the middle of the road and people walking from both sides. We had reached the bridge over the river, one of the few ways to get back to the other parts of Gimcehon.

Police stood on the bridge directing traffic and guiding people across. As we came closer, he suddenly motioned to us and began frantically shouting at us to hurry. I began to run across the bridge with some teachers in front and behind. Like a horror movie, I didn’t have time to make sure everyone was across and only a few occasionally head peaks back confirmed that the other teachers were keeping pace and not lost to the raging river below.

The river below us was usually a river in name only. Barely a trickle of water was usually seen below and the entire expanse could easily be walked across with no effort.

Today was different as the waters raged below us and splashed up onto the bridge. Once we made it to the other side I was finally able to take a good look at the river below and see for myself its transformation from David-esque stream to a now Goliath sized monstrosity of flowing water.
The rapidly rising water. Notice the height of the sign. 
The water was rushing so fast overflowing so rabidly that the road below was overtaken by it and was shut down completely. The bridge we were on was usually a 4.5 M deep tunnel. The tunnel was now no longer visible, only the remnants of a streetsign and the occasional tree branch floated by.

I walked back to my apartment, dropped off my wet belongings and immediately headed back outside to witness the damage of the river. I only had to walk a few feet to see a disaster movie scene in front of me.

Sewers in the middle of the street shot forth water like a dirty water fountain. Stores alongside the road had their owners desperately try to ward off the invading water with makeshift sand bags and brooms. People wandered in the street some volunteering to stack sandbags and keep the flowing water away from more buildings for a few minutes longer. Men in ponchos barked orders as young men shoveled sand into bags. Off in the distance the sounds of sirens sounded in the air as people close to the bridge began to quickly move away. The water continued to rise and the mighty raging river was touching the bottom of the train tracks. It was becoming distressingly obvious that only a few more feet of rain would end up completely coming over the bridge and flooding the buildings below. My home and many others were only a few feet from water oblivion.

I stood watching for a few more minutes, morbidly curios at the impending doom that so many were desperately trying to hold back. The emotions running through me bordered on excitement, being so close to danger and damage and yet dreading what the river could bring in only a few more minutes of rainfall. While it was a far cry from true danger, the feeling itself was exhilarating. I felt like all my senses were at their maximum potential, that at any minute, I could jump into the river and swim my way to safety. These were crazy thoughts of someone intoxicated by the chaos happening around him and the frightening realization of their actions.

I left the riverside and went back to my home. As I went inside I noticed that the rain was beginning to die down and the distinctive splats on my windows were beginning to become quieter.

I spent the rest of my night inside, glued to a TV with a bowl of ramen in hand. Not knowing nor no longer caring about what was happening outside.

When I awoke the next morning I was greeted to the familiar sounds of birds and people talking. As I turned over, I noticed that the sun was shining through and the clouds were back to their cotton white look.

The storm had passed. A new day was here. 

Wednesday, September 12, 2012

Being Socially Lazy: Why I can't live large on the weekdays


It’s easy to make friends in Korea. No really, it is. Living in Korea has this wonderful ability to meet many other people young and old, foreigner and Korean all over the country. I’ve only been here six months and in that short amount of time, I feel like I’ve been able to meet a large variety of people from all walks of life and all different backgrounds. Whether I talked to them for only a few moments or a few months, being able to meet new people has been an incredible experience.

As much as I enjoy meeting new people, and new faces I don’t always like social interaction. Sound strange? In many ways it is. Enjoying the company of people and then again… not, it’s quite the hedgehog’s dilemma of having people become close to you, only to push them away.

It’s a problem that I have always been aware of but always secretly figured would leave or die out as I grew older, that I would one day have a greater appreciation of people and their presence and be willing to spend more time around them. This has become true to some extent, as mentioned above I do love meeting up and spending time with people, but one thing I do enjoy even more is my private time.

After a day work, the one thing I enjoy the most is being alone. As weird and as brooding as that sounds believe me when I say it’s most certainly not. It’s not an attempt to be a longer or separate from society, but rather a time for reflection and a way to recharge after the day.

In a typical day there is a lot that goes through my mind that I either want to sort out or try and forget about before having to repeat the process the next day. Sometimes I have extra work to do after my normal job, requiring me to spend the time and energy usually reserved for resting and reflecting on another task. As lazy as it sounds, sometimes a day teaching in an all boy high school can leave you physically and mentally exhausted. There are usually two things that sound appealing to me at the end of a work day. Those things are dinner and sleep.

I have gone out on the weekdays before whether it was for a planned gathering or meeting. I had no problems doing this, I enjoyed it greatly, remember the liking people thing I mentioned before? Still the same here.  However the times that I would actually do this were sparingly, each time being an event and not a daily occurrence. It’s like eating candy. If you eat that candy bar every once in awhile it’s a sweet and delicious treat. If you eat it every day, it’s probably still sweet and probably still delicious but much less so than before.  It’s no longer a little present to yourself, it’s now just a candy bar.

I have no problem against people who go out on the weekdays and have an extravagant and party-filled time. If they can manage to muster that much energy and still be in tip-top condition for the next day workload, they have my respect. I’ve come to discover that I am not one of those people and have finally come to accept it. I love being with people, I love being social, I just can’t do it every day. The weekend is a different story, free of weekly pressures and deadlines, I feel truly free and willing to do all kinds of interacting within a two day period. The weekdays for me however are best spent recharging and doing the best I can at what I get paid to do.

Maybe one day this will leave me and I’ll turn into the budding socialite that I always aspired to be* but for now I’ll leave the good times for an occasional taste during the week and a huge meal during the weekend. I may be socially lazy compared to some, but I really don’t mind. As long as the ones who matter most don’t mind either, it seems like I’ll be ok.

Which reminds me, I think I have to meet someone tonight…

Or I'll end up like this guy. YOLO!


*I secretly hope this doesn’t happen otherwise I’ll be that 40 year old dude dancing in the club and creeping out all happening youngsters. 

Monday, September 3, 2012

Half Way In: Birthdays, Goodbyes and Half way points


It is now September, seven months from when I first came to Korea and began working for EPIK and stepped foot into Korea for the first time. Before I get too far into details, I will say that this is going to be a slightly sentimental post on all of the things that I have seen and witnessed since coming to Korea. However, this was not a blog post that was planned or even given second thought. There were no plans to celebrate my anniversary in Korea and the time spent here.

The truth is that if I were not writing this post, I would have probably forgotten about how long I have been here. The old line of feeling just like yesterday has never made more sense to me since coming to Korea. Time seems to go so fast here. There’s always work to go to, people to visit and places to go. I used to enjoy the quiet moments of doing nothing and being lazy but with this new, upbeat lifestyle change, I find it hard to sit still more than a day. I am always wanting to move around and always wanting to get outside, even for a bit and get some fresh air. I am slowly becoming a man of motion, and stopping for anything feels odd and like a waste of time.

It's not a birthday without cake
The last couple weeks have been significant in contributing in the nonstop lifestyle. I recently celebrated my birthday with my first birthday party with friends in my life. It was a small and simple event but one that I was very fun to take part and of and very thankful to participate in. I always used to feel that celebrating your birthday was a slightly selfish act of self indulgence and always felt slightly embarrassed for wanting to have one, however this was a lot of fun. I loved having some good friends around to eat, drink and have a fun time. It’s taken 25 years but I finally figured out that the best birthdays aren’t the ones where lavish attention is spent on the birthday boy/girl, but rather its using your day of birth to spend time around and remind yourself why you are thankful for being alive for and kicking for this long.

Last week also marked two events held at the same time, the birthday of one of my dearest friends and the departure of another good friend.

Our histories go back a few years. The person celebrating their birthday was someone I knew from back in the day as a university student. We became good friends and quite close before she had to go back to Korea and I went my separate way. It was not until this year that I would actually see her again.
As for the person leaving, this person was the best friend in Korea to my friend from the university (still following?). I ended up becoming friends with her and despite the short time of knowing her, got to become good friends.

The group assembled 
The party was a dual celebration of one friend leaving and one friend’s birthday. What made it special was the attendance. I had meet friends and friends of friends through various networks and meet ups through these two people. When I was finally able to see most of them all in one place, in the same room, talking to one another, it was a great moment for me. I was always a sucker for uniting groups of people for common causes and it was especially heartwarming to see all of us coming together to give one person one last goodbye and another person some birthday wishes.

My months in Korea have been memorable and exciting. I have learned, grown as a person and discovered more about myself and others than any other point in my life so far. I hope my remaining time in Korea can be spent learning more, growing more and meeting more people.

Despite being miles from home I can say with complete conviction that I am content and happy with my life. I don’t have all the answers yet, but right now, I don’t need to. Life is simply on auto pilot now. The top is down, the skies are clear and the road is long and empty for miles on end.