Wednesday, December 19, 2012

December: The Short Version (What the hell has Kyle been doing in December?)


Korea has been a very exciting place ever since December has started.  A presidential election and shifting of grades at my school have been some of the major events but here are a few others:

- The first major snowfall came to Gimcheon a few weeks ago. Not only was it the first major one, but one of the largest snowfalls Gimcheon has seen in years. In fact, it’s been a very uncharacteristically cold winter for Korea. Combine this with the large amount of rainfall this summer and you got a weather season for the record books.

- With some help and encouragement from a friend, I have started a regular workout routine, twice a week, for about an hour and a half at a time. It’s a simple start but with a combination of lifting weights and watching what I eat protein wise, I feel much better. I actually look forward to working out, something that I can honestly say I haven’t felt in a long time. Also, my girlfriend seems to appreciate the results as well, which is always a good thing.

- November and December have both been very pricey for me.  This has meant that my traveling and leisure options have been limited along with my purchasing options. When you combine this with the biting cold weather, it leaves a lot of weekends spent at home playing games, watching movies and eating cheap food. This leads me to another realization…

- I used to not mind doing this at all. In fact, I used to love simply doing nothing but gaming and watching movies however as I grow older, and especially since coming to Korea, I seem to dislike long periods of doing nothing or having nothing productive to do. Even on vacations if I’m not out and about, simply relaxing feels not as enticing as it used to. Make no mistake I still love movies and games but the hours of movie and gaming marathons become less and less appealing.

- I have made it official that I have resigned my contract and will be staying one more year teaching in Korea at the same school. Not only is the pay level and benefits enticing, but the students and teachers are overall very good. Combine that with a ability to teach older students useful materials, I feel like this is the best option as the job market for me back at home still isn't as welcoming as I would like it to be.

- Along with resigning for another year, EPIK gives its teachers a two week vacation bonus to go and do whatever they wish. While it’s not set in stone yet, I am planning on going home during the month of February to see family and friends again. I am enjoying the time and the people very much in Korea, but I do miss my family and friends quite a bit.

- Korea has elected its first female president Park Geun-hye as the new leader of Korea. While some people predict that given her party affiliation, many things in Korea will continue to stay the same I am hopeful that given her position and her attempts to shrug off the image of her father and make some progressive changes for Korea.

- I saw the Hobbit this weekend and overall enjoyed it very much. I was able to see this with HFR 48 FPS and Dolby Atmos and I can now vouch for this new technology firsthand. The images at first appear slightly fast and super clear (similar to a documentary or drama), but becomes much better once your eyes adjust and instead offers a highly detailed look and feel to the movies. Also, as someone who usually dislikes 3D, I can say that the 3D in this movie was extremely well done and probably the best display of 3D I have ever seen. As for the movie itself, it was a lot of fun. It dragged slightly during the middle but overall was fun to watch with some great performances by the actors, some spectacular CGI work (especially Gollum) and a nice fantasy feel.

It’s been a busy month and it’s not even Christmas yet! I love the fast paced living in Korea and continue to consider myself lucky that I have a paying job that allows me to participate in events like this every day. 

"I'm Going on an Adventure!": How The Hobbit is related to all of us


This was a slightly unusual week for students (and many other foreign teachers) in Korea. I had a two day mini weekend during the Tuesday and Wednesday this week. My school is currently in the process of enrolling new students at our school along with the election of the new president on Wednesday. This meant two days spent doing anything but coming to work. I did the two most logical things I could think of: I visited my girlfriend and we saw The Hobbit.

I had previously read The Hobbit when I was younger. I was still just a middle school student, and the first part of the Lord of the Rings trilogy was about to be released to theaters. I was curious about the source material, so naturally I tracked down all four books and began reading away.

The Hobbit at the time was a book that I found enjoyable but a bit simple. It wasn't until years later after taking a more in depth look at its narrative structure and characters that I realized that this seemingly simple tale was something so much more than that. It was a book that went beyond a simple journey to slay the dragon. It was a deeply personal journey about having the courage to leave your comfortable and familiar world behind. It was the call to adventure that we all harbor inside us, but sometimes lack the courage to find.

Watching The Hobbit reminded me of this, and given the current circumstances, was the perfect time to watch and be reminded of where I have gone and where I want to go.

As I finish up my first year in Korea and my first major job overseas I have watched many things change. 

Coming to Korea has changed me on many levels. In just one year I have learned more about myself than any other point in my life. I learned where I stand on issues and how I choose to interact with people. I discovered that the purest joys in life come from the little things and most importantly, I have discovered that my biggest areas of growth came from discover and exploration. I discovered that curiosity usually always equaled rewards and that failure didn't always mean the end.

There are several points during The Hobbit where Bilbo decides to go home or continue on his journey. Always afraid of the consequences of leaving his comfortable home and having several opportunities to turn back, he always decides to continue on. He knows that he can die any minute. He knows that if he returns, he will not be the same person he was before. He goes along willingly. He knows that opportunity for reward and adventure outweighed the fear of death and failure.

There are moments that like Bilbo, I miss my home. I miss the comfort of people and places that I saw daily. I miss the comfort of lying in my own bed in my own home. I miss the ease of simple tasks such as communication. The US is, and always will be my home. This will never change. There is not a doubt in my mind that I will return home one day. Perhaps for a little while, and perhaps indefinitely.

However, I can also say that I still have a little time left in me. I still have a yearning to explore and travel. I still have a yearning to see the world beyond the scope of my own home. While I can still afford to, while I can still manage too I will remain open and ready for the next big adventure, whatever it may be or whenever it may come.

I think The Hobbit is such a resonating work of fiction that still holds up decades later in both print and moving picture form is that we are all Bilbo. All of us like peace and comfort, knowing that it is around the corner whenever we need it, but at the same time, there is the yearning to break out beyond our walls and explore the bigger world. Humans are curious by nature. I believe that inside all of us, there is a burning need to indulge our knowledge and wanderlust. I believe that we all need the thrill of adventure once in awhile to make us feel alive. To show us that we are more than a biological drone that goes through the daily motions. Some just need a bigger push than others.

Korea was my unexpected journey, but now, I cannot even imagine my life if I never came here. I have had opportunities that I could only dream about back at home and have met people who have made a lasting impact on me. I've learned to be afraid and feel despair. I've also learned to find joy and happiness from life. I've fallen in love with the adventure and the people in it. Some of whom I love and cherish more that I thought I was capable of.

My adventure in teaching continues. One more year awaits and I cannot wait to see what else happens. As Bilbo said: “I’m going on an adventure!”


Sunday, December 2, 2012

Snowfall and the future


After a false start, and a few flakes of snow slowly drifting past my window, the first real snowfall happened yesterday in my town of Gimcehon. When you combine that with the dropping temperatures and frozen droplets of water on my bedroom window, it is no longer a fact that is able to be hid, winter is here in Korea.

My hometown was only one hour from Chicago, and therefore only one hour from Lake Michigan, which in the winter would be responsible for some of the coldest winter and largest snow drifts you could imagine. I imagine it would be worse in other parts of the world, but to someone growing up with it every winter, the snow and cold was a permanent part of living in the Midwest.

Snow brings a new mood and a feeling freshness to any setting you’re in. Its clean white flakes drifting in the air and falling lightly on the ground always stood as a symbol of purity and fresh beginnings. I welcomed the first snowfall like I welcomed the first orange leaf or blossoming flower, with excitement and a sense of a new chapter beginning again.

I feel eager to start another year in Korea. I was recently asked if I wanted to re-sign my contract, and by choosing yes I am now able to pursue a second year with both the experience gained from my first and a selection of new ideas and lessons to present to the students. I have been told that as with many things in life, a second chance brings with it the opportunity to do even better if you embrace it.

Admittedly, I have been thinking about the future lately, and how I fit into the coming years. I had always had a solid plan of what I wanted to do and where I want to go next. While I still retain this plan and have an idea of what I want to do, the methods and the timing of achieving this have changed, a year in a different country has brought forward new possibilities and new options. Admittedly I don’t want to think of all of these options quite yet as I do not have a solid plan of what I’m doing next. All I know is what I want, how I get it is a plan in pending.

For now, thoughts of the future and what ifs are left to dwell at the back of my mind, my attention is now on my present situation.  While it may look like I’m putting off the inevitable, I would say that I am instead choosing to enjoy and experience on what is in front of me. The future will soon become the present and just like everything in my life, I will deal with it appropriately.

For now, I have a lot to focus on and a lot to enjoy. I have a lot to worry about and a lot to accomplish. I have a lot of things in my present, the future can wait.

For now I watch the snowfall, because just like the future, the snow will give away to a beautiful layer, then a dirty slush to be melted away by the rain, to give way for the spring and a new future.

In my life, snow has never lasted forever so I enjoy it while I can, for as long as I can.


“I never think of the future- it comes soon enough” – Albert Einstein. 

Taebeak Mountain 태백산 설경

Monday, November 19, 2012

Thoughts of home and holiday


I love the holidays, the big holidays. The ones that you see on greeting cards and the ones that have songs played on the radio about them. They may have become more material (or rather more blatantly so) than before, but all the commercial glam and glitz I could care less about. I have in essence always enjoyed Thanksgiving and Christmas because of the two things it brought with it: the copious amount of free time and time spent with my family.

My family was never very large. All of my holidays have always been spent with my immediate family; my mother and father, my siblings and occasionally my grandparents.  When I was young this used to bother me. I would always hear stories about my friends going off to different state to visit their large families packed with uncles, aunts and cousins in some warm and sunny state while my holidays were spent in my own home in the cold and grey Indiana winter. As with all young children with a limited grasp of the world, I always wanted more, I always wanted what I couldn't have.

As I grew older and wiser, I realized that the idea of going to a faraway place to see relatives that I didn't really know or care about didn't appeal to me. It was no secret that my family was separated by distance and personal differences. Why make an effort to be with people who didn't feel the same. As I grew older, I began to appreciate the people who were with me all the time, the people that I actually enjoyed spending time with, I eventually grew to loving the small family and simple holidays that I had. They looked unspectacular to the outsider looking in, but for me their simplicity meant comfort. I could be myself, not have to put on a face to please other people, I could joke around with my siblings, drink more than I probably should and pass out on the couch later on in the evening. It was pure, comfortable bliss.

In a way, I already celebrated Thanksgiving in my own way a few months ago by celebrating Chuseok in Korea. I traveled with friends, had a great meal and overall had a great time. However, the strong sentimentally of the holidays and the end of the year approaching, I have to admit, that the slight feeling of homesickness is beginning to creep over me.

It comes in little unexpected ways. From little emails sent to remind me about Black Friday deals to tweets giving tips on who to stay healthy during the holidays, it’s the little clues that pop up the remind me that while my life in Korea, a new culture has been going along well, almost a new life, different from my old one, life and my family has been continuing without me, taking part in traditions and events that used to be a prevalent part of life still continue, minus one person.

I’m sure I’ll get over it and get back to my own life of working and living in Korea. It’s just funny how the littlest things can often remind us of home and the smallest hint of something can bring back happy memories from your past, making you long for the people and places of yesterday.

They say you can never go back, but as Korea has proven to me time and time again, this is not always the case.

To all back home and to all those around the world, Happy Holidays. Stay safe. Stay happy. Keep those you love in your minds and hearts.

The closest video I could find related to Thanksgiving. I must admit, I will miss the turkey and dressing. Also, Fresh Prince. 

Sunday, November 11, 2012

November testing and beginning again


It’s that time of year for Korea high school students. It’s the time for testing and preparing to finish up their semesters. While the lower grades at my school face the three week onslaught of speaking and essay tests, grade three has recently finished what would most likely be the most difficult test for them so far, the college entrance exam.

Entrance exams are nothing new to me; I have had my fair share of them in my life before and during university. However, the ones in Korea are a bit different than any other exams I have taken before. Getting into a university is so important for students at my school and all over Korea, that a majority of the semester was spent with self study, simply taking a class period to prepare for the upcoming test for their university of choice.

During my little break, I was able to visit the beautiful autumn scenery of Jikjisa  Park
The US SAT has two general sections, English and Math. The Korean exam has five categories including Math, English, Korean, and Social Issues. The test is taken so seriously that the day before the exam is cut short and the other grades (and quite a few teachers) have the day off the day of the exam.  Even airlines are diverted and delayed during this time, to prevent any planes from flying over the school and causing a distraction to the students.

Education is given paramount importance in Korea. I can still clearly remember being told that education is more than a bright future and a good head on your shoulders, in Korea education is a resource.

“In Korea, we have no natural resources. We live on a rock, no minerals, no gasses or materials to export. The only thing we have, the only thing we can offer is educated and specialized individuals.”

Also, Hyejin came to visit. Here we are at a coffee shop in Gumi.
Besides the glut of exams and tests, November is full of events at my school, including the upcoming school festival and service day. It feels strange not actually teaching a class and making new lesson planning material, but just like the spring semester towards the end, the lack of new lessons stands as a sign of the times, a sign that it’s time to wrap up the semester and eventually prepare for a new one.

So now I use this newfound free time to help better and prepare myself for the new year ahead. Soon I will be having new students, teaching new lessons and hopefully spending another year in Korea.

Despite being busy, November has been very good to me. I’ve been doing a better job of keeping personal goals and writing more. I’ve had more time to get back in contact with friends from back home and reconnect with people I thought I would never hear from again. November has also been the month my writing has picked up substantially with articles, personal stories and the National Writer’s Month goal of writing a significant amount of words in a single month’s span.

The wedding of one of my friends, another happy event in November.
I’ve even managed to fall in love during all of this, and despite the distance, am very happy to be with a special someone and hopefully look forward to many more months ahead.

Lantern Festival in Seoul
I was once told that if you’re busy doing the things you love, you will not notice the time passing around you. This could not be closer to the truth, as it now is the middle of November, and I feel like some much has happened to me in a short span of time. As many things that have happened to me, I still feel eager and ready to discover more opportunities and jump into more adventure.

The year may be nearly over, but there are many more months ahead of me. I’ve come so far, and still feel the need to get started. This is a good thing. A busy thing. A happy thing. 

Wednesday, October 31, 2012

My thoughts on the future of Star Wars

This has nothing to do with Korea... pretty much at all, but its still something that I want to talk about as its as about as important to me as many things in life.

I'm going to talk about Star Wars.

Now for those who know me really well, this is nothing new. I talk about Star Wars all time to the point that I can subconsciously quote lines from the films with no afterthought. Ever since seeing them as a young boy, they have left a huge impact on my life and are responsible for opening the door to one of my biggest passions in life, watching, analyzing and enjoying the art of film.

It goes without saying that Star Wars has gone a little stale over the years with the dilution of the prequel trilogy and woeful expanded universe spin offs that were generally, not very good. There were a few bright spots, but for the most part Star Wars had become the definition of an over-milked franchise long past its due date. It's not that the core story was bad, it just needed a fresh start that took everything that the original movies stood for and presented them in new and exciting way.

This morning was the announcement of the creator of Star Wars, George Lucas selling the Star Wars franchise (along with Indiana Jones, ILM and Lucasarts) to Disney for $4.05 billion. While he would still retain creative consultation, the direction of these movies would be handed off to a new series of directors.

Honestly, this news comes as nothing more as pure exciting expectation The announcement of a new Star Wars trilogy starting in 2015 with a new entry coming out every two to three years. While this may sound like overkill, this is in fact quite possibly the best thing to happen to the series since The Empire Strikes Back.

The thing that held back the prequel trilogy was Lucas himself. While his creative visions were spectacular and inspiring, his writing in the movies was horrible. Stiff acting, nonsensical links to the original films and some of the most unlikable characters in cinematic history took Star Wars off a pedestal and into laughing stock territory and garnered enough fanboy rage to last several lifetimes.

Now with other fresh interpretations being brought on board, my mind boggles at the possibilities are. The fact that we are moving away from the prequels era that have been beaten into the ground and into the post Return of the Jedi era that fans have been asking for since 1983 leave me one very excited fan.

The list of directors that could very well craft a masterpiece of a Star Wars film is huge. The wonderful thing about the Star Wars series is the universal appeal and huge rang of its own universe, Literally any kind of story would fit in, a perfect medium for directors to play around in and the reason that the two to three year time period between each movie doesn't bother me. There's enough galaxy and stories for a hundred films if done properly.

Some worry that Disney buying the brand would only dilute the Star Wars we all know and love and that Star Wars has become a corporate entity and not a universe that we all know and love. To them I ask them two questions:

1. Where the hell have you been since 1977? Star Wars suddenly becoming a brand? It's been a brand since 1977.

2. Disney has proven that it cares for its franchises created through other sources. Many moaned that their purchase of Marvel would lead it to a downward spiral. Then The Avengers and The Cinematic Universe happened. Total dilution of quality right?


Some may be cynical, but I could not be more excited. While I don't think we will be seeing a gritty and violent crime drama set in Star Wars' underworld, the new possibilities are exciting and the chance to expand  the universe in a new direction is something that I cannot wait to see.

In 2015, Avengers 2, Justice League and Episode VII will be unleashed in theaters for film fans around the world to watch and enjoy. I haven't been this excited for anything Star Wars since being a child. Bring em on. Bring em all on.

* Finally, because I obsess over stuff like this, here's a list of directors I would love to see make a Star Wars movie. My God, my fanboy mode is going insane..

James Cameron (Titanic, Aliens, Avatar)

Duncan Jones (Moon)

Neil Blomkamp (Distirct 9)

Edgar Wright (Scott Pilgrim vs, the World, Hot Fuzz)

Christopher Nolan (Inception, The Dark Knight Rises)

Joe Johnson (Captain America: The First Avenger) *note: He was on record for saying he would like to do a Boba Fett movie so who knows?

Brad Bird (Mission Impossible: Ghost Protocol, The Incredibles)

Ridley Scott (Prometheus, Alien, Blade Runner)

Guillermo Del Toro (Hellboy, Pan's Labyrinth) 

Peter Jackson (The Lord of the Rings, The Hobbit)

Joss Whedon (Firefly, The Avengers)

I really can't wait. Where I once saw Star Wars as a soulless husk I now see a glimmer of hope. May the Force be with us, all of us.

Goofy doesn't seem right as Darth Vader...

Tuesday, October 23, 2012

Fall time in Korea


When I was younger, I used to be relatively unbiased when it came to having a favorite season. To me, each season brought a new and refreshing take to the world outside and would always seem to come at a time when things were beginning to become stale. Just when I was becoming tired of the heat, the cool autumn breeze would come to greet me every morning. When I was beginning to tire of the cold and slush that hit me like thousands of needles, the spring would begin to appear and the once grey and cold landscape would begin to show signs of green and the promise of another year.

To an extent I still do appreciate the seasons, they all bring some variety and change that we all need. As I have become older though, and especially since coming to Korea, I have come to appreciate the fall season, my fondness for it increasing every day.

For one thing, I appreciate the cooler weather even more than I did back home. Summers in Indiana could be hot, but in Korea it’s not enough to just be hot, oh no, it’s the blazing sun and the stifling humidity combined that made the simple act of walking to and from school a miserable  experience. Before I had the sense to take a taxi or bus to school, a simple fifteen minute walk early in the morning often left me drenched with sweat and barely able to breathe without taking in a full breath of dry air.  Spending time in Korea had taught me to hate the heat and hate the humidity even more.

With the arrival of autumn the heat and humidity have slowly begun to vanish, making the walks to school much more pleasant and the morning chill in the air a welcome and refreshing wake up call. As much as I dreaded walking outside during the summer, I welcomed the opportunity to spend as much time as possible outside during the fall.

Fall also seems to have the largest amount of holidays and free days in Korea. Chuseok, Korea’s own Thanksgiving takes place during the beginning of October. Since I teach in a high school, a vast majority of time is spent preparing for exams and final projects, making the situation very stressful for teachers and students. I really do not mind as much as it offers a break from teaching classes all through the day and week after week.

I’m spending time having closer and more interactive lessons and conversations. It takes longer to prepare for lessons and sometimes provides a more difficult challenge of delivering higher concept lessons, but the results are much more satisfying. A majority of time for these students is spent studying and preparing for exams. The number of lessons that contribute towards that are much lower than the Korean teachers at my school simply due to the language barrier and the impossible task of being able to explain everything perfectly to them in a language they do not fully understand.

However, I discovered that my efforts are not a waste of time, but rather another series of lessons and things for them to learn. I have striven to teach my students to think critically and think for themselves. I’ve taught them there’s more to learning English than doing well on exams. I have taught them that learning a language is not an ends to a means, but rather a gateway to more opportunity. I tell how I have traveled, the wonderful experiences and people I have met and how my life has changed for the better since I began my journey overseas. I try to teach them that happiness is not always achieved in life through success, but personal goals. I try to teach them that it is sometimes appropriate and necessary to fail.

I seem to enjoy everything more in the fall. I enjoy going out a night more. I enjoy spending time with people more and I seem to be in a better mood on a more consistent basis.

It may not have the Halloween costumes, apple cider or drives down a leaf strewn road like back home, but I’m still finding ways to enjoy the season in my own unique way.

Happy Fall everyone. May it last until the winter season. 

The perks of having a school nestled in the mountains: beautiful scenery

Tuesday, October 16, 2012

This week in being busy and excuses

You hear it all the time. You hear it as an excuse and you hear it tossed around by people who really are not, but rest assured everyone, that when I say this week, no this month is incredibly, it is not an understatement in the least.

Of course, I'm not complaining, my school is keeping my busy but with actual work that will have an actual impact on the students and staff. Despite the language barrier, I have become a almost full-functioning member of my school staff. I make the tests, decide the criteria and am even in charge of giving them a final grade along with my usual responsibilities teaching classes. It's a lot to juggle and I partially blame the fact that I am in a high school where exams, exams and more exams are right around the corner. I also blame the fact that my school is a private school where high test scores take a high priority over everything else.

Again, I don't mind. It's nice to feel like I'm a part of the school and my input is important enough to be considered valid. I hear stories of many teachers being little more than glorified Mp3 players and simply regurgitate information from the book given to them. Here's a tip to some new teachers interested in teaching in Korea, if you're sent to a high school, prepare to work hard.

My other life, my writing life has also recently gotten a shot in the arm with another publication for me to write and submit to. My plan of continuing to build and supplement of writing resume while overseas continues to go over very well and continues to provide my life with a sort of counter balance and time management both during and after school.

Despite all of this, I find myself still managing to have time for personal enjoyment on the weekend. I usually find myself with more options and things to do than I have time to do them. It is possible to have a normal life along with a busy one, its slightly tiring but always worth it.

Back to work for me now, I'm booked for the rest of the week preparing for exams and helping to prep my school's first digital lesson plans (the future!) This might be the shortest and most self indulgent post I have ever done on here, but as of right now... I really don't have anything else to say. Sorry about that! Life can't be terribly exciting all the time I suppose.


Thursday, October 4, 2012

Happy Chuseok!: Life Gets Busy, I Get Happy

As my mentor once told me, life gets busy. It's an fact that will happen sooner or later and will become a continuing process for any normal adult life.

Life in Korea, and life as an ESL teacher is no different. My high school is in the process of testing, testing and more testing. The most important being the upcoming College Entrance Exam, a test that students often spend their entire high school career preparing for.

Along with that, the end of September and beginning of October contained one of the most important holidays for my school and for Korea. September 26th my school celebrated its Fonder's Day, celebrating the construction of my high school. From September 29th through October 1st was Chuseok, the Korean equal to Thanksgiving coinciding with the lunar calender. The following Wednesday was also another celebration celebration the independence and formation of Korea.

I spent this time taking a road trip with friends to Incheon, spending time driving around the city and eating a traditional Chuseok dinner. driving was the only option considering that train tickets quickly sold out in a matter of hours after going on sale. It took six hours to drive up when combined with traffic and only two and a half hours to drive back. While the holiday was simple, it was a great break and bonding experience with some fellow teachers in Korea.

That Monday I had a friend come and visit me in my hometown. Her schedule is constantly busy and living and working in Incheon rarely allowed her time to come and visit my town in the middle of Korea. For two days we spent time together, exploring Gimcheon and giving her a taste of the rural life that was missing form her busy city living. The two days passed by in a flash and I found myself yearning for a few more days of holiday, if only to enjoy the company for a little longer.

I have now been thrust back into school life, working to prepare and evaluate tests while also preparing students for a speaking and writing contest. I have also just been accepted as a writer for a travel website back in Chicago, making the number of publications that I currently write for at number four.

I have never been busier than I have ever been all all year, but I am also currently the happiest I have been in awhile. Things seem to be falling into place nicely and despite some setbacks, I seem to be back on my feet and ready to take on any challenges that I come across.

I am happy with my jobs, the people in my life and life in general. Happiness may not last forever but for now, its more than enough to make me stand in awe at some of the awesome things life can toss your way.

Things are great, and may be getting better soon.

I've never been busier, never been happier.

A view of Jikjisa Park, near my hometown and one of the many places I visited during Chuseok. 

Tuesday, September 18, 2012

A story of my first typhoon


After witnessing my first typhoon I think I can say with certainty that it is definitely something that seems much more significant in real life than through a screen of a TV or the page of a book. We see images of nature’s fury and the aftermath of her atmospheric induced rage but so often do we give it only a mere passing thought. Sometimes slightly more but nothing that ever affects us, makes us reconsider things or gain a new respect for nature’s tendency to flip the fuck out and rage until there’s nothing left. We experience none of these things until they happen to us, until the “that’s never going to happen to me” happens.

To be perfectly fair this is not the first typhoon I had experienced in Korea. Only a few weeks before had I bared witness to a passing typhoon in my small town of Gimcheon. The brunt of the storm was much further along the coast. My town only witnessed a few prolonged rain showers and the inconvenience of having to pull out an umbrella when stepping outdoors.

The second one to hit was a big one. While we were spared the harsh wind and ocean waves crashing down on us, we were hit with a flurry of rain and water for nearly two straight days. Heavy rain is nothing new in Korea but its after effects were where the major concern came in and almost were the cause of my home becoming much wetter than I would have preferred.

It was still raining hard once I made my way to school. It was still early and getting there and back was not an issue when you had the modern ease of public transportation. As the morning went on, the rain continued to fall harder. I offhandly asked one of the students if they would be going home early. He replied no, stating that the school rarely, if ever let the students go home.

About an hour until the afternoon bell, I noticed students screaming and running outside the teacher’s room. Curious as to why the students were making more noise than usual I peaked outside and like Ebenezer Scrooge asking a young boy what day it is, my students enthusiastically replied back to me that it was announced that the students could go home early.

It was then that I knew that something was amiss in the world of my school. Not only did my principal never allow students to leave early, but today was a testing day as well. It would have to be a pretty serious reason to let them leave so soon. To the students, they felt that they had just won a war against authority. I felt ever more suspicious that the typhoon was going to be a little bigger than a few raindrops.

Even if students are allowed to leave early or are excused from coming to school, teachers still have to come in and sit in the office. The reasons as to why are beyond me, but as the last students left I took my place at my desk and began to work on my computer, listening to music, draining out the world and the rain around me.

The day went on for another hour, my coffee drained itself from my cup and as I finally removed the noise blockers to the outside world I, I noticed that groups of teachers were running around and nervously talking to one another. A few were on their phone and others were glued to their computer screens, staring at the latest weather reports.

As the room became more chaotic, one of my co teachers came in from outside, looking as if the weather had not only rained on him but engaged in a fist fight as well. His dress shirt was soaked, with his tie glued to his chest from heavy rainfall. His pants legs were pulled up to his calves and the back of his feet were bloody and scratched.

“Kyle, we need to go home now. We cannot stay here anymore,” he told me in a rushed tone as he began to run around the room alerting the remaining teachers there.

Volunteer workers frantically working to block the incoming flood water. 
I looked outside my window and saw that the rain had picked up the pace significantly, Not only was the rain falling down at a furious rate, but the school was beginning to attract rainwater as the hallways and steps began to disappear from sight.

A group of teachers that lived near my area were preparing to walk home together. The bridge we usually crossed was too dangerous to drive over by car. I questioned the logic of a car being unsafe but walking being acceptable but quickly put it aside as the teachers packed their bags, rolled up their pants and took off their shoes. We were heading out into the typhoon and we were going to go home.

Walking out of the school was sense shocking experience as the rain pelted us from above, its wet drops feeling more like tiny pellets rather than the gentle rainfall that people liked to romanticize. The normally bare streets overflowed with water pouring out of the sewer drains and down from the hill. The simple act of walking was not more challenging due to the fast running water.

Teachers stayed in a group as we passed out tunnel entrance to the school. Where there once was a dip in the road now stood a pool of water that was rapidly becoming fuller. No car would ever have a chance of making it through. The school was now effectively cut off from the rest of the world. A wish that students often made about the school, but never intended they would actually see.

The sewers began overflowing, bringing in even more water. 
As we walked down the street, we saw people standing in doorways and cars pulling over to the side of road. As fast and as thick as the water fell, it was becoming too difficult to see a few feet in front of you, let alone ahead of the road. My teachers continued to walk on, the wind was picking up and the was now blowing directly on us, slowly trying to push us back to the school, trying with all of its will to prevent us from heading back to our dry homes. This had just become a man vs. nature situation. I was wet, tired and not wanting to turn back. It was too late and I was too far. I was going home.

After walking along the soaked streets I saw a line of cars slowly turning around in the middle of the road and people walking from both sides. We had reached the bridge over the river, one of the few ways to get back to the other parts of Gimcehon.

Police stood on the bridge directing traffic and guiding people across. As we came closer, he suddenly motioned to us and began frantically shouting at us to hurry. I began to run across the bridge with some teachers in front and behind. Like a horror movie, I didn’t have time to make sure everyone was across and only a few occasionally head peaks back confirmed that the other teachers were keeping pace and not lost to the raging river below.

The river below us was usually a river in name only. Barely a trickle of water was usually seen below and the entire expanse could easily be walked across with no effort.

Today was different as the waters raged below us and splashed up onto the bridge. Once we made it to the other side I was finally able to take a good look at the river below and see for myself its transformation from David-esque stream to a now Goliath sized monstrosity of flowing water.
The rapidly rising water. Notice the height of the sign. 
The water was rushing so fast overflowing so rabidly that the road below was overtaken by it and was shut down completely. The bridge we were on was usually a 4.5 M deep tunnel. The tunnel was now no longer visible, only the remnants of a streetsign and the occasional tree branch floated by.

I walked back to my apartment, dropped off my wet belongings and immediately headed back outside to witness the damage of the river. I only had to walk a few feet to see a disaster movie scene in front of me.

Sewers in the middle of the street shot forth water like a dirty water fountain. Stores alongside the road had their owners desperately try to ward off the invading water with makeshift sand bags and brooms. People wandered in the street some volunteering to stack sandbags and keep the flowing water away from more buildings for a few minutes longer. Men in ponchos barked orders as young men shoveled sand into bags. Off in the distance the sounds of sirens sounded in the air as people close to the bridge began to quickly move away. The water continued to rise and the mighty raging river was touching the bottom of the train tracks. It was becoming distressingly obvious that only a few more feet of rain would end up completely coming over the bridge and flooding the buildings below. My home and many others were only a few feet from water oblivion.

I stood watching for a few more minutes, morbidly curios at the impending doom that so many were desperately trying to hold back. The emotions running through me bordered on excitement, being so close to danger and damage and yet dreading what the river could bring in only a few more minutes of rainfall. While it was a far cry from true danger, the feeling itself was exhilarating. I felt like all my senses were at their maximum potential, that at any minute, I could jump into the river and swim my way to safety. These were crazy thoughts of someone intoxicated by the chaos happening around him and the frightening realization of their actions.

I left the riverside and went back to my home. As I went inside I noticed that the rain was beginning to die down and the distinctive splats on my windows were beginning to become quieter.

I spent the rest of my night inside, glued to a TV with a bowl of ramen in hand. Not knowing nor no longer caring about what was happening outside.

When I awoke the next morning I was greeted to the familiar sounds of birds and people talking. As I turned over, I noticed that the sun was shining through and the clouds were back to their cotton white look.

The storm had passed. A new day was here. 

Wednesday, September 12, 2012

Being Socially Lazy: Why I can't live large on the weekdays


It’s easy to make friends in Korea. No really, it is. Living in Korea has this wonderful ability to meet many other people young and old, foreigner and Korean all over the country. I’ve only been here six months and in that short amount of time, I feel like I’ve been able to meet a large variety of people from all walks of life and all different backgrounds. Whether I talked to them for only a few moments or a few months, being able to meet new people has been an incredible experience.

As much as I enjoy meeting new people, and new faces I don’t always like social interaction. Sound strange? In many ways it is. Enjoying the company of people and then again… not, it’s quite the hedgehog’s dilemma of having people become close to you, only to push them away.

It’s a problem that I have always been aware of but always secretly figured would leave or die out as I grew older, that I would one day have a greater appreciation of people and their presence and be willing to spend more time around them. This has become true to some extent, as mentioned above I do love meeting up and spending time with people, but one thing I do enjoy even more is my private time.

After a day work, the one thing I enjoy the most is being alone. As weird and as brooding as that sounds believe me when I say it’s most certainly not. It’s not an attempt to be a longer or separate from society, but rather a time for reflection and a way to recharge after the day.

In a typical day there is a lot that goes through my mind that I either want to sort out or try and forget about before having to repeat the process the next day. Sometimes I have extra work to do after my normal job, requiring me to spend the time and energy usually reserved for resting and reflecting on another task. As lazy as it sounds, sometimes a day teaching in an all boy high school can leave you physically and mentally exhausted. There are usually two things that sound appealing to me at the end of a work day. Those things are dinner and sleep.

I have gone out on the weekdays before whether it was for a planned gathering or meeting. I had no problems doing this, I enjoyed it greatly, remember the liking people thing I mentioned before? Still the same here.  However the times that I would actually do this were sparingly, each time being an event and not a daily occurrence. It’s like eating candy. If you eat that candy bar every once in awhile it’s a sweet and delicious treat. If you eat it every day, it’s probably still sweet and probably still delicious but much less so than before.  It’s no longer a little present to yourself, it’s now just a candy bar.

I have no problem against people who go out on the weekdays and have an extravagant and party-filled time. If they can manage to muster that much energy and still be in tip-top condition for the next day workload, they have my respect. I’ve come to discover that I am not one of those people and have finally come to accept it. I love being with people, I love being social, I just can’t do it every day. The weekend is a different story, free of weekly pressures and deadlines, I feel truly free and willing to do all kinds of interacting within a two day period. The weekdays for me however are best spent recharging and doing the best I can at what I get paid to do.

Maybe one day this will leave me and I’ll turn into the budding socialite that I always aspired to be* but for now I’ll leave the good times for an occasional taste during the week and a huge meal during the weekend. I may be socially lazy compared to some, but I really don’t mind. As long as the ones who matter most don’t mind either, it seems like I’ll be ok.

Which reminds me, I think I have to meet someone tonight…

Or I'll end up like this guy. YOLO!


*I secretly hope this doesn’t happen otherwise I’ll be that 40 year old dude dancing in the club and creeping out all happening youngsters. 

Monday, September 3, 2012

Half Way In: Birthdays, Goodbyes and Half way points


It is now September, seven months from when I first came to Korea and began working for EPIK and stepped foot into Korea for the first time. Before I get too far into details, I will say that this is going to be a slightly sentimental post on all of the things that I have seen and witnessed since coming to Korea. However, this was not a blog post that was planned or even given second thought. There were no plans to celebrate my anniversary in Korea and the time spent here.

The truth is that if I were not writing this post, I would have probably forgotten about how long I have been here. The old line of feeling just like yesterday has never made more sense to me since coming to Korea. Time seems to go so fast here. There’s always work to go to, people to visit and places to go. I used to enjoy the quiet moments of doing nothing and being lazy but with this new, upbeat lifestyle change, I find it hard to sit still more than a day. I am always wanting to move around and always wanting to get outside, even for a bit and get some fresh air. I am slowly becoming a man of motion, and stopping for anything feels odd and like a waste of time.

It's not a birthday without cake
The last couple weeks have been significant in contributing in the nonstop lifestyle. I recently celebrated my birthday with my first birthday party with friends in my life. It was a small and simple event but one that I was very fun to take part and of and very thankful to participate in. I always used to feel that celebrating your birthday was a slightly selfish act of self indulgence and always felt slightly embarrassed for wanting to have one, however this was a lot of fun. I loved having some good friends around to eat, drink and have a fun time. It’s taken 25 years but I finally figured out that the best birthdays aren’t the ones where lavish attention is spent on the birthday boy/girl, but rather its using your day of birth to spend time around and remind yourself why you are thankful for being alive for and kicking for this long.

Last week also marked two events held at the same time, the birthday of one of my dearest friends and the departure of another good friend.

Our histories go back a few years. The person celebrating their birthday was someone I knew from back in the day as a university student. We became good friends and quite close before she had to go back to Korea and I went my separate way. It was not until this year that I would actually see her again.
As for the person leaving, this person was the best friend in Korea to my friend from the university (still following?). I ended up becoming friends with her and despite the short time of knowing her, got to become good friends.

The group assembled 
The party was a dual celebration of one friend leaving and one friend’s birthday. What made it special was the attendance. I had meet friends and friends of friends through various networks and meet ups through these two people. When I was finally able to see most of them all in one place, in the same room, talking to one another, it was a great moment for me. I was always a sucker for uniting groups of people for common causes and it was especially heartwarming to see all of us coming together to give one person one last goodbye and another person some birthday wishes.

My months in Korea have been memorable and exciting. I have learned, grown as a person and discovered more about myself and others than any other point in my life so far. I hope my remaining time in Korea can be spent learning more, growing more and meeting more people.

Despite being miles from home I can say with complete conviction that I am content and happy with my life. I don’t have all the answers yet, but right now, I don’t need to. Life is simply on auto pilot now. The top is down, the skies are clear and the road is long and empty for miles on end. 

Wednesday, August 29, 2012

Vacation Wrap Up: Busan and the final days


Coming to Busan was a shock to see and initially a very overwhelming experience. Spending the last few days in the peaceful countryside where the only noise would be the chirping of cicadas or the distant hum of a car was quickly contrasted by the blaring K Pop, nonstop traffic and constant crowds of people hurrying back and forth. It truly felt we had entered another world, or another time and era all together. Living in the past had truly made for a brightly colored and loud future.

One of my friends had been lucky enough to sit next to a friendly resident of Busan who attended Busan University during our bus ride. She had told my friend all about the different spots to see and visit in Busan and the best places to stay for the night. With that knowledge we hopped into a taxi with a destination in mind: a jimjilbang named Homers, supposedly one of the fanciest jimjilbangs in Busan.

The taxi ride was a long one, taking well over ten minutes to arrive at our destination. Traffic and tall buildings bathed in neon light was a constant reminder that we were back in the big city, back to civilization. We were still recovering from the shock of being back. I used to enjoy living in the city and being part of the hustle, it made everything feel dynamic and alive. Everything was always moving. Everything was always exciting.

My love of the city was subsided during my trip. I had gotten used to the peace and quiet; I was beginning to appreciate how much time and space I had in the rural areas. The air was cleaner, the people nicer and the food tastier. Our cab driver was mostly silent on the way to the jimjilbang, only occasionally confirming our destination. I was officially missing the smaller places; I even missed the talkative cabbies.

We arrived at Homers and were greeted with a large building in front of us. The inside lobby was a posh collection of immaculate polished floors, shiny glass chandeliers and smooth brass railings. Dressed in only a sweaty t shirt and carrying only a backpack, this place was much too fancy for my vagabond looking self.

Homers was two parts, one a jimjilbang and the other a hotel. Both were connected and both could allow different people to go back and forth as they choose to. The jimjilbang was on the higher floors and despite being slightly less fancy, it was still the most impressive jimjilbang that I had been to yet. The highlight was a huge window that allowed a view of Busan’s famous bridge from the jimjilbang hot tub or the sleeping area. It was only a few feet away from one of the smaller beaches in Busan, with a view that allowed you to see the dark waves crashing up on the shore and the brightly lit stands selling food and random trinkets to shine brightly below.

Being that this was towards the end of our trip, the fatigue of traveling around was beginning to catch up to all of us.  Despite the novelty of the place we were in, sleep was a main objective. As much as I wanted to sleep, my body was still too active, still too excited to go to sleep just yet. Thankfully my friend sitting next to me was not quite ready for bed either (or was and I ended up keeping her up) and the next few hours were spent talking and taking in the view in front of us. It was funny to think that at the time, our journey started in a bus station with the mountains in the background and was now ending with a bridge and the ocean. It was a comforting and triumphant thought as the room grew dimmer and my eyes grew heavier.

I was immediately awoken by a sound intimately familiar with. I bolted up to the sound of the entire room’s scream, once again awkwardly looking around trying to get over my initial shock and disbelief that something like this could happen to me again.

My blurry eyes made out a large group of people glued to the TV in front of them. By the time I had put my glasses on and rubbed the sleep out of my eyes, I was finally able to piece together the chaos as the room once again let out a unified scream that shook the room.

The soccer game between Korea and Japan was on TV, the game that was one of the biggest games for any Korean with even a passive interest in sports. It was nation versus nation, pride versus pride and even at three in the morning, these fans were going to show their support.

With the outburst of noise, sleep was no longer a viable option. I moved around the room watching the people and the game, not really angry or tired but more amused and interested in a game that had now managed to capture the attention of the entire formally sleeping room.

By the time the sun began to peak over the ocean and rise between the columns of the bridge, casting its lights and shadows on the sand below, the noise and excitement had just reached its peak. Korea had just won the game, the crowd had gone wild, and the yelling and the screaming was slowly beginning to die down. After the last few people had finally left the TV, quiet had swept over the room again and the quietness was finally back, inviting for someone who had only previously slept a few hours before, just enough time for an hour of sleep before having to wake up again.

The reason we awoke so early was to meet another friend meeting up with us. Not only would we be traveling around Busan with him, we would be traveling around in a car that he had rented and he would be driving. I had ridden in cars around Korea before, but never with close friends and never for the purpose of just driving around.

The sun was shining brightly as my friend signed the release papers and we cautiously got into our small fuel- efficient car for the first time. We would be driving in one of the biggest cities in Korea with some of the more aggressive drivers in Korea. My friend said a prayer for us before we left. We all laughed it off as a joke, but I secretly suspected that she was not.

The worry and fear of driving was quickly replaced with an incredible sense of freedom and excitement. We were riding in our own car in Korea. We didn’t have to rely on the subway or the bus. We were free to go where we wanted to, listen to our own music and leave when we felt like it. The freedom and giddiness was infectious and soon everyone in the car was laughing and talking on where to go and what to do.

I never thought you could encapsulate the feeling of driving for the first time but this was a moment that was perfectly replicated for me. We were young, we could go where we wanted to, and we had no worries.
We spent the day driving to random places in Busan, occasionally taking a look at a map to get a solid idea of what areas to visit. We ended up going to two large malls, one of which was supposedly one of the largest in the world, a driving range bowling and finally finishing with a steak dinner. Relatively normal and characteristic of big city living but I didn’t care. We went to these places with good people, drove there with our own will and did next to no planning.

The trip had come to an end and as I boarded my train to go back home and prepare for my return back to the work force, my mind was completely at peace. No reflection, no worries and no planning ahead. Just silence and serenity existed where only a few weeks before worry and stress.

There was nothing left to think about. I now had everything I wanted, everything I needed. 

Our chariot of freedom in Busan



Thursday, August 23, 2012

Vacation Wrap Up: Tongyeong, cable cars and the ocean


After the heart attack inducing night with the screaming old man, my friends and I set out for the city of Tonyeong. While I tried my hardest to uphold the illusion of a proper night’s rest, I could not maintain the illusion for long. As soon as we bought our bus tickets, we all ended up passing out on the bus. The two hour ride seemed like a blissful period to rest and recover precious hours of sleep rather than a burden of having to wait before heading to a location.  It was the most restful sleep I had ever gotten on a bus.

Once we arrived at the bus station it would be a ten minute taxi ride to our location destination, a cable car ride up to the mountains.  We quickly found a taxi and were able to get a good view of the town on the way. One of the travelers I was traveling with was near fluent in Korean and upon our driver discovering that, decided to have a conversation with her. Naturally I couldn’t completely understand what she was talking about but I could tell from her smiles and tone of voice that she was enjoying the banter she was having, or at the very least, pretending to.

After their conversation was over, she told us the details. She told us how this taxi driver was a representative of a historical figure during Tongyeong’s festival in the fall. He also told a story of the boys who lived in the town and how they conspired to date girls from the big city.

“Boys who live in the country often try to date girls from the city. However, most girls from the city are vain and not interested in dating country boys. So what the boys do is have the girls they are interested in come down to Tonyeong and catch fish for them. They catch the fish, clean them and prepare them as a meal. The fish are so delicious and the girls are so impressed that they end up coming to the town and dating the country boys. So I think, if you want to get a city girl to like you, learn how to fish for her.”

The secrets of love, life and fishing all in a single cab ride.

As we approached the cable car station, the driver told us one last piece of advice before leaving.

“When you go up and down the mountain, be sure to sit on the left side of the car. You can get a good view of the mountains and when you come back it looks like you’re going into the sea. Also, be sure to make a wish once you make it up to the top of the mountain. Be sure it’s only one wish through. Anymore than one would leave the mountain god confused and unable to grant the one you wanted.”

Once we arrived at the cable car station we began our trip up the mountain. The car slowly crawled its way up the mountain. We shared a car with another family, a father, mother and teenage son. As we slowly climbed up the mountain and the trees and building began to become smaller, the car began to slowly rock from side to side. The father in front of us began to close his eyes and bury his head in the palm of his hands. I could hear him mumbling to himself as the mother rubbed his back for encouragement. As we were getting higher, the father was slowly beginning to lose his nerve.  I however was enjoying the sights and the distant view of little buildings and cars nestled close to the coast. It was a view like a postcard, one that I tried to soak into my memories and burn into my brain.

Once we had reached the top, of the mountain we were greeted with a slew of people standing around, taking pictures and enjoying the view. There was an option to go even higher and have a better view of the ocean and surrounding mountains, the same spot where centuries ago famous Korean generals and strategists stood observing the sea battles taking place below them.  We stood silent staring out at the ocean below. I had seen the ocean a total of two times during this trip and it still had not gotten old. Its vastness and relative calm made me feel comfortable.  By being surrounded by the mountains and tress made everything seem at ease. That everything was right with the world and that standing here was a safe place, a place to reflect and marvel at the natural beauty all around you.

Soon it was time to leave. I made a silent wish before leaving for the downward cable car. I made it simple, but poignant. It was personal, but unselfish. It was the best wish I had made in years and it felt completely satisfying, even coming from someone who never really believed in wishes.

After leaving the cable car and heading back to the bus station to hit our next destination, we were lucky enough to have another talkative taxi driver on the way to the bus station. That was one thing I noticed about the taxi drivers and other people living near the coast. Everyone was very welcoming and easy to talk to. Even a foreigner with a limited grasp in Korea could still engage in a short, but friendly conversation. There was a sense of closeness and community that was rare in my town and completely nonexistent in the bigger cities.

The next bus ride took us to a small town not too far from Tonyeong. This small town was where our ferry ride awaited us. I had not yet ventured to a town smaller than my own, so seeing sights like a bus station the size of a small room and ferry station about the size of my apartment was novel and reminded me that no matter where you go, there is always somewhere smaller.
We did not need to wait long for our ferry to board. We had just enough time to grab a quick bite to eat, local seafood specialty before heading on the boat.

Not since being in Japan had I been able to ride on a boat in the middle of the ocean. The overcast sky reflected off of the dull water. Ships floated lazily out in the distance and besides the gentle hum of the motor, only the waves could be heard.

Our host on the ferry ride was a funny guy. His snarky and sarcastic humor went over well with the audience as he chided us for not being more interested in what we had to say and wondered why we sounded so unenthused.
“You picked the right boat today, but I picked the wrong audience,” he said.

The ferry ran close to rock formations, huge jagged rocks hutting out of the water, forming a small valley that could barely fit a single person. One other formations fisherman could be seen casting off, using only a small area for standing as they stood straight as a pole against the crashing waves determined to obtain their next catch.

Our ship came to a rest at a small island in the ocean, where we had an hour to explore and rest. We decided to simply sit out the exploring part and take a rest while we ate our meal and looked off at the ocean below us. The island was owned by a couple who had originally fled from North Korea and ended up building a area to explore and observe. It was a beautiful and almost eerily isolated place of peace and beauty so far from civilization.

As we looked off into the distance, I noticed a collection of small towns and buildings on individual islands. There were no roads, nor bridges. These people were living their own lives out away from the small town, away from the constantly in motion society of Korea. They had escaped the lifestyle that grips every Korean from birth until death and were living their lives and making a living on their own island, in their own world.

I thought about where we had traveled so far and how far we had come. Being so close to the coast had allowed me to see sights not common to someone living in the middle of mountains. It was so refreshing down here, the smell of sea air all around you, the freshness of food and the friendly demeanor of the people made traveling and transportation a pleasant adventure, more than a nuisance. Maybe the people living by the ocean would have thought the same way if they came to my town. Maybe they would have enjoyed the slightly busier atmosphere and mountains around them. Maybe they would have enjoyed the big city with all of its sights and sounds. Maybe they found this simple life too boring and predictable.

The thought amused me for a bit more before we had to make our way back to the ferry. Daylight was quickly slipping away and after a short discussion, decided that our best option was to go straight to Busan and spend the night there.  Our time spent away from the big city was coming to an end, along with our vacation. We were on our way back to the rush of modern society, we were on our way back to our more familiar lives.

A wish is only a cable car away