(12) 90 in 90: The one day vacations

Yesterday was Korean Independence Day. While it was an important holiday, most Koreans choose to spend the holiday relaxing and enjoying their one day chance to rest and relax before going back for one more day on Friday. Instead of staying my home, I choose to take a day trip to Seoul to visit my girlfriend.

Normally, these one day breaks I don't like to do anything too crazy or venture too far from my town. I always feel like if I do something too big and too adventurous I'll keep being distracted by the clock and knowing that despite all the fun I'm having, it all has to end soon and I'm left with the task of making sure I can make my way home in time to get a decent night's sleep for the next work day.

This was different though. I have plenty of experience traveling and walking around Seoul and Incheon. I've visited my girlfriend many time before and have become familiar with both cities and what they have to offer.

We didn't do anything out of the ordinary, a late lunch and a trip to the DVD room to watch a movie, along with dinner at a Mageli place. Nothing too exciting, but still immensely fun.

I think what made the day so enjoyable was a near perfect amount of relaxation, visiting someone I cared about and getting out of my own house and town. It's my ideal perfect day: spending time away from home so I don't get too stir crazy and doing something fun and relaxing as not to disrupt my peaceful state of mind.

That's not to say that I don't enjoy doing exciting stuff, but like I said earlier, one day adventure fests are never fun to me. I never have fun as much as I worry. Maybe that's why I disliked Majora's Mask, that damn time limit and the moon threatening to crash down on me.

We tried a mageli sampler. It did not taste as good as this picture may lead you to believe. 

Lately though, its getting harder to leave once the day is over. For me, there is still this longing to be there longer. My initial need to go home in a timely manner is suddenly replaced with a moment of illogical thoughts of staying longer, staying the night even and catching the earliest train back home in the morning, knowing very well this is very stupid and is worth more trouble that its worth.

My traveling mind makes no sense to me. It goes from being logical and on time to wanting to have fun and forgo all responsibilities the next. My adult, responsible self constantly at war with my immature side.

However, my adult side always wins, even if its painful for a few seconds upon departure. I know we will see each other again soon and I'll most likely have a lot of fun again but, I want to have fun now. Not later. Once again, my inner spoiled child starts crying again.

A few minutes later though, I'm on the train on my way home. Tired, knowing that I have a three hour ride ahead of me and knowing that by the time I get back, it will be way past my work day bedtime. I could have planned it earlier, but I just had to squeeze those last few minutes of fun out of my mini break day.

I guess in the end, the adult and the child can come to a compromise after all.

Happy Chuseok!: Life Gets Busy, I Get Happy

As my mentor once told me, life gets busy. It's an fact that will happen sooner or later and will become a continuing process for any normal adult life.

Life in Korea, and life as an ESL teacher is no different. My high school is in the process of testing, testing and more testing. The most important being the upcoming College Entrance Exam, a test that students often spend their entire high school career preparing for.

Along with that, the end of September and beginning of October contained one of the most important holidays for my school and for Korea. September 26th my school celebrated its Fonder's Day, celebrating the construction of my high school. From September 29th through October 1st was Chuseok, the Korean equal to Thanksgiving coinciding with the lunar calender. The following Wednesday was also another celebration celebration the independence and formation of Korea.

I spent this time taking a road trip with friends to Incheon, spending time driving around the city and eating a traditional Chuseok dinner. driving was the only option considering that train tickets quickly sold out in a matter of hours after going on sale. It took six hours to drive up when combined with traffic and only two and a half hours to drive back. While the holiday was simple, it was a great break and bonding experience with some fellow teachers in Korea.

That Monday I had a friend come and visit me in my hometown. Her schedule is constantly busy and living and working in Incheon rarely allowed her time to come and visit my town in the middle of Korea. For two days we spent time together, exploring Gimcheon and giving her a taste of the rural life that was missing form her busy city living. The two days passed by in a flash and I found myself yearning for a few more days of holiday, if only to enjoy the company for a little longer.

I have now been thrust back into school life, working to prepare and evaluate tests while also preparing students for a speaking and writing contest. I have also just been accepted as a writer for a travel website back in Chicago, making the number of publications that I currently write for at number four.

I have never been busier than I have ever been all all year, but I am also currently the happiest I have been in awhile. Things seem to be falling into place nicely and despite some setbacks, I seem to be back on my feet and ready to take on any challenges that I come across.

I am happy with my jobs, the people in my life and life in general. Happiness may not last forever but for now, its more than enough to make me stand in awe at some of the awesome things life can toss your way.

Things are great, and may be getting better soon.

I've never been busier, never been happier.

A view of Jikjisa Park, near my hometown and one of the many places I visited during Chuseok.